Tuesday, June 28, 2016
Millions exposed to dangerous lead levels in US drinking water, report finds
Monday, June 27, 2016
Trump emails: Can you spare $10 to help elect a billionaire?
Expect other states' abortion laws to start falling after Texas ruling
Sunday, June 26, 2016
With 'Brexit,' Washington's Direct Line to the Continent Suddenly Frays
Rapper rallied for peace in Baltimore. An hour later, he was killed.
Saturday, June 25, 2016
What's In A Name? Sometimes, An Automatic Rejection Email
Suddenly, some dots connected themselves for me and I understood in that moment that when I pitch articles to editors at certain popular sites, I am usually submitting to someone named Madison or Amber or even Kylie, and the first thing they see is that my name is Lori. I was born in 1963, when the most poplar girl names are now relics of history: Lisa, Mary, Susan, Karen and Linda. Not far down the list were the cutesy names like Cindy, Marci, Tracy, Stacy, and yes, Lori. They all scream, "I'm a child of the '60s! Marcia, Marcia, Marcia!" That is so helpful when I am submitting writing to millennial editors named Amber or Tiffany. My name is now synonymous with cronedom and irrelevance, even though my writing is as good or better than it ever was.
So what about the guys over 50? Do their names advertise their descent into insignificance the way female names do? I began by looking up the five most popular boy names of 1963: Michael, John, David, James, and Mark. In 1980, we had Michael, Christopher, Jason, David, and James in the top five spots. Lots of overlap. And as I read further down the lists--from both 1963 and 1980--the overlap in traditional male names was remarkable, with just a few newcomers like Ryan and Derek.
My brother's name is Michael and he is 51. His name is one of the most popular boy names of all time, still to this day. No one can form any preconceived ideas about his age or anything else about him due to his first name. It was not until recently that we have entered the era of Aidan, Dylan, Caleb and Brayden. Someday certain boy names will have the same date stamps that girl names have always carried, but not yet.
When I was younger, I used to wish that my parents had not been so desperate to find a trendy name for me. If I had been named Lorraine or Loretta, then Lori could have been my nickname, and I could have applied for jobs and signed documents with a non-hippie name. Today, if my name were Lorraine or Loretta, I'd be no better off than I am, because it would still be clear to all of the Nicoles and Crystals that I am "older."
I've been thinking about changing my byline to L.M. Day. Unlike J.K. Rowling, I would not be trying to obscure my gender, just my age. My male peers with names like William and Thomas are in the clear. Even if they submit their writing to a Jason or a Justin, no flashing lights and sirens accompany their submissions as boomers. Since it's mainly the Loris and Lindas of the freelancing and blogging world who feel the water lapping around their ankles as their essays are virtually circular-filed, what's to be done besides gaming the system? I encounter increasing ageism each year, signaling my presumed inability to contribute meaningfully to a digital dialogue that is no longer everyone's, as if ownership of culture rationally belongs to any particular age group over others.
F*ck that. The absurdities do not end. Ever.
So should I make the move from Lori to L.M.? I could resubmit all of my best articles that suddenly started getting turndowns in the past few years, using the new moniker. At the very least, I'd have an interesting social experiment I could blog about for an over-50 site. Good times.
Lori Day is an educational psychologist, consultant and parenting coach with Lori Day Consulting in Newburyport, MA. She is the author of Her Next Chapter: How Mother-Daughter Book Clubs Can Help Girls Navigate Malicious Media, Risky Relationships, Girl Gossip, and So Much More, and speaks on the topic of raising confident girls in a disempowering marketing and media culture. You can connect with Lori on Facebook, Twitter, or Pinterest.
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Does Brexit mean Trump will win?
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24 dead in West Virginia floods; search and rescue continues
Surrounded by muddy devastation, Cathy Light and her husband Chris thought it was "heaven sent" they had free burgers to munch on in a Clendenin parking lot Saturday.
Friday, June 24, 2016
Low-Priority Immigrants Still Swept Up in Net of Deportation
Wednesday, June 22, 2016
Trump's top foreign experience: A Scottish golf course losing millions
Grieving father's anti-drug mission paused at end of tunnel
Anguished over his daughter's overdose death, John Cramsey became a crusader against the heroin crisis in Pennsylvania's Lehigh Valley, starting a group for concerned parents and recovering addicts and going on self-described missions to save young people..
Tuesday, June 21, 2016
Attacks in ISIS' Name Expose a Struggle to Spot Future Terrorists
Monday, June 20, 2016
Prosecutor: 'Mississippi Burning' civil rights case closed
One day short of the 52nd anniversary of three civil rights workers' disappearance during Mississippi's "Freedom Summer," state and federal prosecutors said Monday that the investigation into the slayings is over.
Gay Leaders Turn to Old Nemesis for Safety
Sunday, June 19, 2016
Anti-Trump delegates raising money for staff and a legal defense fund
Former Vanderbilt football player found guilty in rape retrial
Saturday, June 18, 2016
Parents gifted girl to man, police say
The LADY
She came walking
Into our lives
No prior plans before
She only did
What anyone would do
No less no more ...
To care and help
Her aging mom
Assist her on her way
She never knew
How all would be
So different from that day ...
But History soon
Would take a turn
Her life completely changed
Her caring heart
Would play a part
Where all was rearranged ...
Through many years
Through tears and smiles
We've had our share of strife
We've done our best
To take this test
Find Meaning in this Life ...
But life is full
Of happenings
We just don't have control
Sometimes things
Lift us in the air
To deep caress our soul ...
Yet anyone can
Have a dream
To hope for better days
To try and find
Our Unique place
In each our different ways ...
How lucky though
For us to see her
Standing where she's now
One can't even
Imagine that
Such things could come about ...
And as we grow
And learn from life
The lessons we recall
Expect the
Unexpected
Learn to stand after we fall ...
That dreams do change
Along the way
Yet one thing that remains
The Person Who
We Truly Are
Our wisdom slowly gains ...
And now the time
Has come for us
To be there as she was
To help and give
Our very best
To spread our finest love ...
Not take for granted
Anything
We've worked so hard to gain
To honor those
who've helped us through
The suffering and pain ...
Although it may
Seem easier
To judge what others do
One never really knows
Unless one walks
In other's shoes ...
So Let Us All
Rejoice today
For Life's Amazing Plan
For Giving
All Humanity
A Loving Helping Hand ...
And IF one day
One was to share
This story down the line
I'd gladly say
Back in the day
The Lady was so Fine ...
Happy 71st Birthday Aunty Suu ...
May you be Happy
May you be Healthy
May you Find Your Peace
May you Find Your Joy !!!
And
THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING !!
___________________________________
Soe Moe Lwin
19/06/2016
11:00 am
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6 killed as van carrying 16 crashes in Virginia
Virginia authorities say six people are dead after a van carrying 16 people hit another car and overturned multiple times.
Thursday, June 16, 2016
Despite Trump call for action, gun debate heads down familiar path
Trumped by candidate's rhetoric, GOP lawmakers at loss for words
Wednesday, June 15, 2016
Wildlife Officials Vow to Find Gator That Killed Toddler
Victims' stories: A look at those killed in Orlando shooting
Tuesday, June 14, 2016
Sacramento pastor defends sermon praising Orlando killings
The videotaped sermon by Pastor Roger Jimenez of Verity Baptist Church touched off a firestorm of controversy shortly after it was posted on Sunday.
Juror slams judge in Stanford rape case, calls sentence 'a mockery'
The judge who sentenced Stanford University swimmer Brock Turner to six months in jail for sexual assault is continuing to face criticism for his decision.
Monday, June 13, 2016
Faces of the victims of mass shootings
Scores of people have died in mass killings in the U.S. See some of those killed in the most recent tragedies.
Sunday, June 12, 2016
Orlando Gunman's Ex-Wife: 'He Would Get Mad Out of Nowhere'
Trump says Orlando massacre shows he's 'right' about terrorism
Saturday, June 11, 2016
Grimmie's final performance
Norman Reedus Rides Out on His Own in New AMC Show, and It's Definitely Not The Wild One
Reedus, who plays the enormously popular Daryl on AMC's The Walking Dead, launches his own unscripted AMC show, The Ride With Norman Reedus, Sunday at 10 p.m. ET.
It follows the real-life motorcycle enthusiast on a series of rides around particularly choice parts of America.
The series leads up to the fall return of The Walking Dead, when we will presumably learn whether Daryl was the unlucky good guy whose skull has been smashed into jelly by the villainous Negan.
The Ride With Norman Reedus doesn't deal with that kind of negativity, as they say in the pop psychology game. It's an upbeat production celebrating the adventurous side of motorcycle culture as Reedus and a series of guests roar through some of the prettiest sights in America.
The first episode takes Reedus and his jewelry-designing pal Imogen (above) on a ride from Los Angeles up the Pacific Coast Highway, the famous Route 101.
It's a stunning ride, and while an hour only allows time to sample a small part of its fascination, you don't have to be a biker to understand why cruising along in the open air is a great way to maximize the sensory experience.
Despite that kind of lovely travel element, however, The Ride remains targeted most directly at motorcycle lovers.
Reedus's pit stops almost all involve bikes, from the BMW that he borrows for the trip to a Zero bike that runs on electricity and makes no sound.
Verdict here: Reedus says that while he likes the Zero a lot, he's still old-school enough to prefer the "rumble" of traditional bikes.
His final stop takes him to the Re-Cycle Garage in Santa Cruz, where he guests on a podcast called Motorcycle Misfits. The on-air team, as the name suggests, is a bunch of outsiders drawn together by a common affection for bikes.
Among other things, they ask Reedus what bike he'd suggest for the Zombie Apocalypse. He prefaces his answer by saying his choice probably won't please everyone in the group.
That moment is one of only three or four that references Reedus's Walking Dead celebrity. He doesn't spend much time himself talking about it, focusing more on his love of bikes and how biker culture was his route to finding himself when he moved to L.A. almost 20 years ago.
If nothing else, The Ride With Norman Reedus presents a different California biker world than we've often seen in the movies and on television. From the 1954 movie The Wild One to the recent TV show Sons of Anarchy, California bikers have often been portrayed as a lawless, reckless bunch.
Reedus fully buys the notion of bikers as outsiders, but everyone we meet here is law-abiding and a solid citizen. The wildest it gets is when famous bike designer Roland Sands stands on top of the seat while cruising down a freeway at maybe 50 miles an hour.
Reedus slides into the host role well, with only a few passages where the banter feels stiff. In general, he comes off less as a star than that one guy in a thousand who hit the number and can't fully believe it landed him a gig as cool as this.
Sure, it's something of a vanity project, in the sense that it wouldn't exist without Reedus's fame from The Walking Dead and AMC's interest in giving more airtime to one of that show's best-known characters.
But that doesn't mean it can't still achieve its purpose, which is to take fans on a different ride.
Think of it as if it were, say, Cooking With Carol, a hypothetical spinoff with a different Walking Dead character. It would still be cashing in on The Walking Dead, but if the recipes were interesting, so what?
Besides, what better way to defy Negan?
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Police don't know why Christina Grimmie was shot
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Touchy, grabby, aggressive: Turner stood out before rape
In Albania - NATO member and U.S. ally - worries about the emergence of ISIS
Clinton and Trump clinch, but the voters are ... perplexed
Friday, June 10, 2016
The War of the Future? Picture Big Armies and Many Fronts
Thursday, June 9, 2016
Democrats close ranks as Obama backs Clinton, Sanders vows Trump defeat
The Democratic Party began to unite around presidential nominee Hillary Clinton on Thursday as President Barack Obama formally endorsed her candidacy and rival Bernie Sanders signaled he will soon drop out of the contest.